tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530248309584484772.post6131104090826090530..comments2023-05-07T01:50:33.443-07:00Comments on Solo Mommy: Take a look from the other side....Solo Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04753957963804202575noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530248309584484772.post-58308621401158897072010-02-11T13:53:40.676-08:002010-02-11T13:53:40.676-08:00Sometimes maybe we try too hard and for too long t...Sometimes maybe we try too hard and for too long to look at the other person's point of view. The time comes when we have to realize that it's our point of view that we live with. It's good to try to understand, to be tolerant, forgiving, etc but ... it can take a long time to recognize verbal abuse, for instance, because it's often so underhanded or invisible or thought of as "just" immaturity, tiredness, conflict, etc. Sometimes we see things grey that are really black and white. <br />It will be interesting to see what has changed in your relationship now, so that it's what you want.Blondi Blathershttp://blondtothebone.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com